Thursday, June 9, 2011

Sex is a taboo in Asian society.

pernah dengar pasal "obedient wives club" ?? aku ternampak tadi kat facebook kawan aku snap a pic yang kuar kat the united press, nz hari ni...alah korang mesti da tau kan.


before ni club poligami ye dak? sekarang club 'isteri-isteri patuh' pulak?...isteri mesti patuh sebab takot laki berpoligami ke ape ni?eh ke camne?....aku tak nak ulas panjang-panjang sebab aku pon tak ade mase nak ulas..tengah saat genting nak jumpa abang kacak final exam....so aku letak kan la baris baris ayat kalau ade yang malas nak pergi baca sendiri kat sini, sini mahupun siniiiii....

"Islam compels us to be obedient to our husband. Whatever he says, I must follow. It is a sin if I don't obey and make him happy," said Ummu, who wore a yellow headscarf.

"Sex is a taboo in Asian society. We have ignored it in our marriages but it's all down to sex. A good wife is a good sex worker to her husband. What is wrong with being a whore ... to your husband?" she said. (Rohayah Mohamad).ayat makcik ni yang a good wife is a good sex worker to her husband tu memang la tak leh blah kan...memang tak dinafikan sex tu penting makcik, tapi tak delah sampai a good wife just refer to your sex performance semata??hadoi la.

"When husbands come home, wives do not welcome their husbands with warm alluring smiles and sexy dressing ... That is the reality today," she said...ni satu lagi...aku senyum gak la baca...tak ada la sampai nak seksi kan kak...cukup sekadar bersih kemas dan sedap mata memandang....tak gitu??

She said wives must go beyond the traditional roles as good cooks or good mothers and learn to "obey, serve and entertain" their husbands to prevent them from straying or misbehaving.Indirectly, "disobedient wives are the cause for upheaval in this world" because men are not happy at home and their minds and souls are disturbed, she said....tak hepi at home? camne plak kalau suami yang tak buat isteri happy plak?

ape ni?ape ni? marriage not just about sex...kalau club ni cuma stand for sediakan 'nafkah batin' first class untuk para suami sahaja, aku tak rase tu berjaya untuk 'prevent them for straying or misbehaving.', bak kata korang la....rasenye kalau baca dari atas artikel sampai bawah rasa macam misi dan visi club ni is just to ensure their husbands are sexually satisfied...camtu?ok jup ape motif bila dulu tubuhkan club poligami pastu sekarang tubuh kan club ni plak??

ok now boleh pergi baca "lelaki bujang 28 tahun ni" punya komen...dia antara yang menyokong...mereka yang tak sokong tu bukanlah 100% bout this club mereka kata salah...cume...em ntahlah..susah nak cakap...ikut lah selera memasing..baca and fikir...ok dah.....nak sambung study...saje mai kejap-kejap conteng-conteng kat blog ni....

8 comments:

Unknown said...

mcm2 skrg ni. dah dah g study. hee

julu said...

Allah pernah bersabda.. kalau Aku benarkan manusia menyembah manusia, akan Aku suruh isteri sembah suami..
bukti Allah sndri suruh isteri taat pada suami walau cmne skalipun

lumut said...

EZAN,
ye ye study da nak tido neh..hehe

JULU,
yup. awk bleh explain lagi maksud 'walau cmne skalipun tu'...nice sharing julu....=)

julu said...

ade satu kisah..
sahabat keluar rumah n pesan ke bini die.. jgn keluar rumah tanpa kebenaran dia..
satu hari,mak kepada bini dia ni sakit tenat.. rumah mak dia dekat jek.. tapi bini dia still x kuar rumah sbb teringat pesan suami dia..
last2 mak dia mati.. sahabat ni rasa bersalah dan tanya nabi.. Nabi kata bini dia melakukan perkara benar.. x dosa pun..
itu apa yg sy taw..
apepun tergantung suami tu jgak.. kalo suami sndri abaikan tanggungjawab, isteri kan boleh mintak cerai.. Islam tidak membebankan :)

cEro said...

uih, camtu skali komen dia..tp macam merendahkan martabat isteri je bila kata sex worker...

amal said...

rasanya xperlu la sgt buat kelab itu,buat kelab ini..dah mcm nak berpolitik je..hehe

[z@ck] said...

update dah!

Adeqq said...

obedient wives club ni ade kuar kat paper aritu. and one of the phrase yang dia sebut, "wife must be like a first class prostitute"

tak faham T________T